Now and forever a wonderful journey. . .

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a simple step. .Take a peek-a-boo on my journey. . .the soul of which is liberty,to think,to feel and to do as I please....

Thursday, June 30, 2011

A few moments was all it took...

Someone has wisely said, ‘All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another. The funny side of change is that it strikes you when you’re least expecting it, when you are in complete sync with life. Then change slithers down jolting us from behind and somehow we are never the same again. It happened to me when the tsunami of 2004 struck our shores.



It had been my first trip away from home, representing a painting workshop for my school at Wayanad hills and we had boarded the train on Christmas day, my thirteen year old self quivering with excitement of being on my own. I bid a hasty goodbye to my anxious parents who were spending Boxing Day at Mahabalipuram beach resort with friends. Too excited to sleep, I remember waking up at the wee hours of the morning. When the clock struck eight the train began to swerve madly causing passengers to fall from their berths. In a few moments we were back to normal and the train stopped. Feeling scared I rushed to my teacher who soothed me saying it was nothing. Feeling reassured I remember spending the rest of the morning in bliss completely unaware of the damage those few moments had caused to tons of people including my parents. On reaching my workshop late in the evening I was greeted with anxious phone calls and messages from my parents who had been worried out of their minds. They had experienced a narrow brush with death and come face to face with the giant waves that hit the Marina. It was only with a stroke of luck that they managed to hold on and not get swept away unlike several of their friends who lost their lives. It was only then that I realized that trains had derailed due to the quake and I could have been in one of them, that my parents could have been one of those millions who actually got swept away by the killer wave and she raged her way up the shores. In a lot of ways the tsunami changed the way I looked at life . The beach visits I longed for were replaced by a creeping sense of dread at the chunk of human life it had sliced away in one sweeping wave. The tsunami changed me. I began to realise the value of every moment, the value of the present because tomorrows could never come and we’d never know if this was our last day left on this planet.


I took up tsunami relief as a cause in my school and we took up ventures to collect money for the ones who lost everything near and dear to them, to put ourselves in their shoes and help them to pull themselves together after the trauma. The tsunami came as a wakeup call to me , that we cannot compete with nature’s fury , and it takes only a moment for the castle that man has so painstakingly created to come crashing down like a deck of cards. !


I also realised that while we brood and fight over communal issues , hatch plans to wage wars, foster grudges among neighbour countries and device strategies of mass destruction nature is hatching her little plan too. And the tsunami taught me that we should put our differences aside and unite as a whole , because when nature raises her club and strikes we are left with only our ‘foes’ to turn to.


The fatal day of the tsunami chimes in my mind when I read up on the issues that the world is fighting over , I am reminded of that morning that started out as any other until earth ‘shook’ things up... a few moments was all it took , but sadly it took all...!






Thursday, June 16, 2011

One more time

One More Time...



Looking back at the moment that changed my life, I wish life actually did have a remote that I could rewind back to the day my best friend bid goodbye to me and the rest of the world. Having spent the best part of my middle school with Anne be it groaning over math and crushing on the cutest guys , I was quite taken aback when she came to tell us that she was packing her bags to leave for Cochin that fall. All our plans of taking our tenth grade tuitions together and doing guitar classes (Anne was a guitar addict) fell in a hazy heap in front of me as I realized that my best friend was leaving the city for good. I remember sulking around for days avoiding her and giving snooty replies to her gentle words. I befriended others and began to build a shell around me, to cut her out of my life. She soon left for Cochin and all strings snapped. I plunged into my tenth grade life, and even though I thought about Anne on and off and wondered how happening her life was , the thoughts soon ceased to be and she became a memory , carefully tucked away in a vault which I did not intend on opening for a long time, and probably never would.


I still recall that The phone call on October 16th two years later. Having rushed back from after school activities I remember recognising the familiar voice that brought back those memories of my former best friend. I remember feeling the world stop around me when she told me that she’d been diagnosed with bone marrow cancer the previous year and was undergoing chemotherapy. She’d left abruptly as she couldn’t come to terms with the condition herself and had not wanted me worrying about her when my boards were round the corner. She reassured me that she was on her way to getting better and wanted me to come and visit her as soon as I could. I took the next flight to Cochin and spent the day with Anne, the frailer thinner Anne who sported a pink bandana. ‘From then on there was no separating us’ she’d said, but as a twelfth grader now balancing academics with a full social calendar I found it hard to strike a balance. I loved her like crazy but there were moments when she took the backseat to my Friday movies and school culturals. ‘She’ll be here soon ‘I told myself. ‘What could go wrong if I put her on hold for a couple of days more’? I remember having this nasty fight with her when she begged me to come visit her over the weekend. I had refused as I wanted to shop for my school farewell. I snapped at her telling her to ‘go get a life because she did not seem to have one’. Little did I realise the irony of my words back then. Anne passed away a week later.


Now, 4 years later those words haunt me like a ghost, reminding me of the choice that I had to have visited my best friend before she drew her last breath. If only had I known that her chemo was taking a turn for the worse, If only I had had the time to listen to her pour out her worries, If only I had put my selfish needs aside to give a hug to my best friend when she needed me the most. Life’s like that. You wish you had that ‘one more time’ to set things right but sometimes there’s never a tomorrow. I’ve become a different woman after Anne. She’s the reason for who I am today. When I see relationships break because people take each other for granted I remember her , when I am the first one to say sorry and fix a fight I remember her, When I take time out to listen to a friend’s worries I remember her, when my friends come to me when they want a hug I am reminded of her. I see her smiling down on me because I’ve understood that ‘ tomorrows’ probably never take life. I directed a movie ‘One more time’ dedicated to Anne hoping it would bridge the gap between two former best friends, or work its magic on an egoistic couple, to remind us all that it is not a sin to say sorry, to tell a person that you love them and to give people second chances because you never know what tomorrow has in store for you.


This article again is a tribute to Anne, to tell her that she is still my best friend wherever she is ,that I¬‘ve never strum the guitar after she left , that I still visit her first when I land in Cochin and most importantly that I never take my friends or foes for granted and make it a point to be there whether they need me or not , that I remember her in my prayers every night until we meet again on that beautiful shore.








Monday, March 7, 2011

so do we


SO DO WE…
CHANGE is what we all cherish. But do we really understand the changes we go through in our lives? Look out of the window pane near you. Do you see life? Do you see the seasons? Are they changing? Well, then, look carefully...sometimes when you look out the window  you feel the warmth caress your face, the eternal summer breeze that seem to behold us and promise to never leave, that which assures us of warmth and security in life always…. But the next time you take a peek, you simply don’t get what you’re hoping to see. Rather you’re faced with a harsh gust of wind, and you realize that despite its warm and tender promises, summer has indeed left and brought in her place , winter that makes your heart go cold…nothing in life stands still. It’s a perpetual cycle and by and by we tend to adapt along with the seasons, anticipate the biting winters, and embrace the sunny springs, shelter from monsoons and so on…
Seasons tell us something, a truth that we all know deep down but fail to come to terms with... Seasons change and invariably so do we. How many times in life would we have reached those cross roads in life where we have to leave behind ‘the life we lived’ and move ahead to yet another chapter?  How many times would be have promised those near and dear to us that ‘things won’t change and that ‘we’ll be together forever’…yet time changes everything. As the summer leaves melt into autumn so do our thoughts, feelings, views and in turn relationships. We harden over the bleak autumns, ski through winter, welcome spring with fresh notions and views and then of course comes back to summer. But no two summers are similar. And no one can come back to being their old selves. We might eventually come back to who we were once but then again, we realize that what we left behind took a turn to change for the better too.
The only thing that never changes is change itself. It continues to lurk in every nook and corner of our life, waiting to pounce at routine and give our lives a good shake. Today with life moving at such breakneck speed that we fail to even notice seasons changing , be it summer , pouring, fall or snowing we go about doing out own thing, so immersed in our life that we seldom look back at who we were a few seasons back, we never give introspection a second thought .. To those good old summers we spent with our first best friend who is now goodness knows where… those times you could cuddle up with a good book in your mother’s arms, to those days when you believed true love existed with your high school sweetheart…
life is like the seasons, they are so vivid and distinct and each phase of it brings a fresh wave of memories to behold, like the seasons we all have a period of sunny happiness, spring full joy, snowy winters yet through these bouts of joy the wet monsoons of trauma and sorrow also find their way into our lives… and like the seasons we learn to live through each period and await the next season with a smile no matter what it hold in store for us.
Let’s embrace change and all that comes with it... Like the seasons they bring along experiences to be treasured. Happy days give us memories to behold while harsh ones like a stormy autumn gives us lessons to remember so that we are better prepared for the future…
So lets live every moment of our life, forgive easily, laugh loudly, dream bravely, reach out to near and dear , follow your heart’s little voice and venture out to where it leads you and  make every moment count while it is in our hands  for who knows what the next season has in store for us?
With these changes of seasons, temperatures and our own beings it is often a time that we begin to ponder yesterday, and consider what lies ahead. We try to ready ourselves
but at the same time have a few regrets, of things that did not get done or quite get done or could have been done differently and great moments where your wishes came to life. Yet we put those at the back of our minds and plunge into another season. And the seasons change and so do we. ‘

seasons greetings



Here’s an ode to you and me
A tad more than what you really see
For I don’t merely come and go
But with the feel and souvenirs and so much more

When I’ve got my sunny side up
I bring the shine and warmth of a buttercup
You call me summer the season of love
Of sand castles and seashells on a sunny beach cove

I’m warm, I ‘m bubbly and I ‘m here to please
Shine I do mightily on you till your love for me ceases to be
Then you wish I went behind a cloud
“Its time I change” I say out loud

I turn away and go sober and bleak
Gone is my sunny self, not even a peek
I fall into a stupor and shed tears of leaves
And you call me autumn, the season of relief


As months go by I come out of my shell
And puff out my cheeks and blow and swell
I charge out trailing snow, ice and hail
My breath cold and fierce like a blowing gale
 You greet me with joy skate about my trail
But as I get stronger you rush for shelter
And ward me off with fire as warm as my summery self
You wish my sunny self was here to get you warm as toast
And I laugh out biting cold and to myself I boast!

As a new year dawns bright and clear
I revive from my cocoon of ice, to treat my near and dear
With a spring in my leap, I kiss the flowers to bloom
I cheer the birds to sing and melt away gloom…

As you dance around celebrating the time
I sigh to see your lives, so much like mine

When I was there to please, you wish for me to fade
And when I turned away you begged for me to stay
For in life too, we never stay the same,
Change is a must, be it name or fame
My final words to you is to change for the right reason
And you’ll find me greeting you, as yet another season…

Yours truly
Season…..


Monday, May 3, 2010

Your home is in my heart….


There once lived a world
Where wishes never went unheard
Pleas granted…and woes kissed away
The world was called home….
An abode I am never alone

But time plays her tricks
And now I am where all along
I never wanted to belong
Where love never saw her beau
Where hatred never met his foe
The creek of understanding never came my way
Through twists and turns I grope
Hoping to find my way
The hand to hold me away from all my fears
And to wipe away my tears
For the day I’ll never be left to cry alone
All my life…the journey back I crave
For the most magical journey
Is the one that takes me HOME….




So close..Yet so far....

To all those who have found a true friend…..and lost….to all those who have people so close to you...yet so far…




The scraps of paper floating through the air might never ever find you...
I turned to you to guide me through
You taught me how to be a friend...
How can I be a friend in a world where you have turned a bend?
The chance is as much as these scraps of paper finding you…
I am turning away from my window
By the time you come back, the papers will be blown afar…
But you ill be further from my heart
So close….yet so far

These papers were once letters. Scraps of papers calling for secret rendezvous
They carried a wish, a command, the strengthening of a bond
I saved the notes you sent those days
In a vault all in your praise
I followed you like a devoted shadow…
The same you said you couldn’t be without...
But now you do not even turn around
To find the shadow on the ground
You fail to see it is fading away…floating away
Like the scraps of paper through the air
So close…yet so far

Those days the time was ours…
We spoke of things over the hours
It was not love...It was not admiral
But a brink above all that
If I was to be...You were a part of me
I complimented you, you completed me
We had our lives to talk….for without you...There was no me
How have we reached a point...a point where you have no time for me?
Where did the ‘time’ that halted for us go beyond where I can see?
Did you float away…or did I?
Am I floating away our cherished times in those scraps of paper which carried our lines?
Why aren’t you there to pick them up?
Our time is soon going to swallow them up
And you’re so close….yet so far

I can’t stand to see them float away…
I can hear your voice fading away..
Your face being washed away
Oh,you re walking away
Now I am going to turn away
I’ll watch out for you till the day dawns….
A day when you turn around to gaze my way
Then our time will settle our fate
Till that day I turn away
To shut out the day..
When you’re so close….yet so far

Reaching Out To you..


This little poem will always remain closest to my heart... I remember how it took form..it was just another sultry afternoon and I was back in school... Over the constant hum of business studies and accounts, I felt the words creeping into my half lulled brain...I crammed the words into the sides of my already tattered heavily sketched textbook ( and earning a disgusted look from my friend Smruti..)...Those days the words freedom had its meaning synonymous to the end of a double accountancy class... (my ex-boyfriend thought otherwise..to him freedom meant someone not bothering weather he lived or died..aah ones own perception)..I 'm getting carried away... I remember hurtling home and calling up my friend Inku( Thats what everyone knows him as..so Inku it is)... and he promised to put it to tune if I polished it up...This marked the beginning of my addiction to words in rhyme...  And I owe it all to Inku who promised to make it a song before I turned 22 and kept his promise before my 20th....
This is our special piece..Reaching out to you... and  it creates a wave of nostalgia in me every time I think of it... I

I wake up each day hoping you’ll be there...
at the end of the day…. your fo
otsteps die away
I realize with a jolt that it was just another day
You seem so far,so far away…

I hope for a look, a smile, a message through your eyes
but you seem so plunged in your fantasies to realize my cry....
Another year,another tear…another summer another fear.
But there is no another You for me..
When you walk by your eyes devoid of feeling,
You fail to hear my heart beating out to you..
And when you read me,more than I ever write
You fail to hear my heart reaching out to you..

there are  you’ve  given me hope....like flashes of lightning
but then the pelting down of rain falls over.....
Leaving me to cry alone..

Time is ticking on...
waiting for your footsteps
but you are moving away…
every moment. Every day….

I hope that I’m dreaming. The memories and the tears
Hoping you’ll come back one day
………..to wake me up again….
another day..another moment..
another year another tear...
another summer another autumn
time is gallopin away..just as the rift between us  keeps widenin
every day...
every second
every moment
it drifts apart
and only memories linger
…………………… to bridge them back together